Writing was, of course, what brought me to bella in the first place! And like most writers, I think, I chose a topic familiar to me. I had considered myself bi since I was old enough to start dating, but had in all honesty dated mostly men. Ha I even got married, which was pure stupidity on my part, but hey we learn as we go right! After two amazing kiddos, I split with my ex...and started dating women exclusively. I have been with my gf for a little over 2 yrs, and she asked me to marry her a few months ago, so when I saw gay and lesbian relationships open, it sort of just felt like it was right timing!