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oh there is nothing to mind....we all have similar experiences, only difference being cultural and perhaps names of our EVIL PARTNERS...;)))))) God bless you too...and stay calm...i read abt ur worries on ur other post abt acting like a zombie....well...if he is aggressive and u want to get away safely, u hav to act like that...i did too...in my case, as i had some financial support, my period of planning and running away was short...like twoo weeks, i was so scared most of the time, always thinking that maybe he knows, maybe he will come to know...but he never suspected....perhaps bcoz he didnt think that i could have the guts to leave him...(he himself told me this later on)....be calm...and dont do anything that would make him suspicious...

So very true! He can become very aggressive over the smallest things.. I'm not trying to send off any warning signs what so ever. There are LOTS of times when I feel like up and leaving because I feel like I'm wasting time and energy on a cause that will never benefit me (him). But then I think about the 3 years that I spent doing the same thing. So there I sit and stare aimlessly off into space. Today he told me that I'm losing it and I need to find it before he finds it from elsewhere and I just said oh...I really hope all of this dullness I'm giving off pays off sometime soon.