If we as Christians are always beating down our non-Christian friends for the way they live, then why should they trust us. Sometimes we need to show them the loving side of God, too.
I agree, Michelle.
When I was in college I attended an Encounter with Christ retreat weekend and one of the slogans of the weekend was, "If your Christianity isn't contagious, it's contaminated." I think we always need to show the loving side of God through the way we live our life.