I'm new here too but already I feel at home! My last three long term relationships ended because I didn't want children, one of the biggest problems is that I'm good with kids, kids like me and every time a partner sees that she seems to think that I should have them as a result. I get it all the time, "you'd be a great dad, you're so good with children!" to which I normally reply that I'm also good at standing on my hands but if someone told me I'd have to do it for the next twenty years 24/7 I'd probably top myself!
Pete
Same thing with me. I also love kids and I'm really good with them. I've had people tell me that it's a shame I don't want any because they feel as though I would make a good mom. I myself think I would make a pretty good mother. I'm very hands on and I would love nothing more than a great relationship with my children but when I think of all that could go wrong, it discourages me. Besides, I've never had the desire to be a mother. I'm happy enough with my life as is. And if that makes me selfish, then I'm enjoying my selfishness without sacrificing anyone else's happiness
Oh and welcome all newcomers!
