Anton Retrogamer, you seemed a bit confused by what I said, so let me clarify. I've seen both in concert and I was saying Orgy's lead (Jay) is hot, implying that I knew who you were talking about.
Now that I've got that one straightened out, its really hard to narrow it down, but I'll give it a shot.
1. vast - dirty hole (sounds icky, good song though)
2. a perfect circle - 3 libras
3. queens of the stone age - no one knows
*4. breaking benjamins - polyamorous (I know you said 3, but the video for this is neat, it incorporates some sort of game in it too, kinda like Red Faction II)
Also check out anything by Tool, Goldfinger, Tenacious D - hilarious, System of a Down, Static X... things of that nature. and if you haven't already heard of them and you don't mind weird music and profanity, check out Mindless Self Indulgence <img src="/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />