Definitely a luau for 75+. But I didn't do it by myself. My entire family chipped in! My dad cooked a 300 lb. piglet in an underground imu. We made lomi salmon, haupia, chicken long rice, teriyaki chicken, etc. in huge batches.
I need to be more mindful about the time factor when throwing a party. I have to remember that I'm the hostess first and chef second! My guests want to visit with me and I tend to stay in the kitchen.
I serve foods I like without thinking about the time they take to cook. Most of the stuff I like requires last minute cooking. For example, I served deep-fried ice cream balls served in flour tortilla baskets. You can't prefry the ice cream balls!
You also can't prefry won tons and other such items. So I really need to plan better party menus that allow me to enjoy the party.
Because I was raised in a home where my mom always threw dinner parties, hosting large events doesn't faze me. Thanksgiving, etc. for 20 is nothing. But I need to remember to STAY OUT OF THE KITCHEN! The thing is, it's my favorite place!
The actual dish isn't the hard part. It's usually the VOLUME and TIME CONSTRAINTS that is the challenge! Like Dinner Impossible!