You know its funny, after reading some of these posts, I had a memory. I remember when my mother told me she hated kids!!! And she sure didn't intend on making "us" ( me and 2 brothers). She said that my older brother and i were accidents, and she did want my little brother- untill he became a walking monster. I really appreciated her honesty and I understood what life was like before the pill. And i do enjoy kids except babies,and has long has they are someone else's problem! I knew one thing- and that i wasn't about to be miserable in a situation like my moms.She even disliked her grandchildren! Ha, Ha-and appreciated the fact i didn't have any! :cool: