I really, really do feel sorry for my mother (and somewhat guilty, even though I wouldn't change my decision for anything). My Mum is one of those women who was absolutely BORN to have grandkids...
... So my Mum sits with her sisters (who all have buckets of grandkids) and I'm sure feels pretty sorry for herself
Karen, I feel similar to what you described. My mother
loves children, would do anything for grandkids, and would be an extremely doting grandmother. My mother's older brother and younger sister are having new grandchildren all the time, and I know it just kills my mom.
I have some hope that my brother or sister might have children someday so that my mother can finally have her wish. However, at 30, my brother thinks he is "too old" to start having children (I have tried to convince him that if he really wants children, 30 is actually a fairly young age to have a first child); and my sister
loves living alone, almost never dates anyone, and would definitely not be in a position for single-parenthood.
I think my mother realizes that having to wait so long for grandchildren (or eventually having very few or none at all) is a consequence of her raising very strong, independent, intelligent children who are all university graduates with amazing careers. So, I think that her pride in us is
some comfort to the no-grandchild thing.