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Pikasam-yes Mt. Bachelor is beautiful and a great ski area. I like it much better than Mt. Hood. :-)

I hear from single friends all the time, what to do in the evenings, especially weekends or holidays. They are always asking if I know of any people to meet (male or female). Most people don't want to hang out a bars. Other friends marry or have kids and go their own ways. Especially if you are don't have family in the area. It can be a struggle.

Being in my mid thirties, the dating pool is getting more shallow. From what I have seen, the remaining single men either have emotional baggage from bad relationships, are misogynists and pay for lap dances and/or hookers, or are just socially inept. I have a friend who is 41 and she has not been with many men for 8 years for those reasons listed above. Going to bars is not an option because the bar scene caters mostly to younger people. According to a friend of hers, there will be a second wave of single men because more divorces are happening. She is willing to date divorced men with kids. She and I share similar views about being better off being single than being in a miserable relationship. Essentially, you have to be your own best friend.