Hiya, TheBlonde.
I've only read your initial post without going through the replies, which is rare for me.
Based on your initial post, I'll take a wild stab at your age, and I'll aim my bullseye at mid-to-late twenties. This is not a judgement; quite the opposite -- it's a stab back on my own mid-twenties, because your sentiments reflect where I was then.
Someone might suggest a chill pill to soothe your thought process -- with the whole SO fear factor, letting the baby shower and surrounding [censored] get to you. I, however, admire how much you're letting yourself soak all this up in the moment and how much you're allowing it force you to think. What's awesome is that you're not just thinking about it, you're regurgitating it in discussion -- how therapeutic.
My God, I was a mess of emotion and thought from 28 to 33 regarding the possibility/desire to have a baby; dealing with my best girlfriends having babies while I wasn't; feeling like I might be missing out in so many ways, including questioning WHY I wasn't feeling maternal...so much. Don't fear it, embrace it, journal it...I promise you, it's nothing more than a rite of passage.
If you didn't go through these confusing, frustrating emotions and thoughts, you wouldn't be a part of the descendents of Eve.
We're here for ya, lady.
Last edited by Angela P; 04/05/08 01:33 AM.