Internet is a great tool, but believe me it can create many problems in a relationship if you're addicted to it. My husband and I actually met on the internet also. His relationship before me was through internet too. That should have been a red flag right there. My husband and I have been together 4 years now. About two years ago he started talking to a 17 year old girl on the net whom he claimed was just a friend. Of course I didn't want to be that overbearing jealous wife so I left it alone. Well 6 months after he started talking to her I found emails saying "love ya babe" blah blah blah. I confronted him which he then explained was all just a joke and he would stop immediately. Of course it went on...until one day I came home from work early and found my husband naked and her running out of the house. He then had the balls (no pun intended) to say to me that they didnt have sex..they were just laying together talking.....enough is enough.
I am still with this man. He has not done anything to my knowledge for about 10 months now. Only the other day I found a message to her stating that he still loves her and thinks about her every single day. I don't believe he has started to physically cheat on me again, yet I am still hurt by this, and plan to divorce now. I don't want to live my life constantly checking emails to see if the man I love wants to be with other women. What started out as "innocent fun" for him has completly ruined his life....he just doesn't know it yet.
