Thank you all for the kind words regarding what I'm going thru with the divorce. And for those of you who mentioned that you also went thru divorce...I am so sorry you had to endure such a terrible thing.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this "friend." After reading your posts, I've decided to give the friend a call back, but I will be waiting awhile...no rush. After all, she was obviously in no hurry to call me. I really dread it though...because I don't know what to say to her. I don't want to discuss the divorce or how I'm doing because I feel that she doesn't really care. If she asks, maybe I will just tell her to reference my email that she received 6 months ago...ha ha
And more than likely she won't ask much because she will be too eager to tell me ALL about her baby and probably each and every detail of his life. Which normally wouldn't be all bad, except as we all complain about on here...alot of mothers never seem to care about us or what is going on in our lives. Not that my life is the most important thing in the world, because others are important too. It is just tiresome when it is always all about them...all about the baby. At least though, she won't be asking me when I plan to join motherhood and pop out one! ha ha
But you all are right...she is not a reliable friend and I've decided to accept that. I enjoy her company so, I will let her contact me when she feels like it. And when she does, I will try to give her only EQUAL what she has given me, as FeebeeGeebee mentioned. That is hard for me sometimes though. I tend to give more, but I plan to try my best to do the equal thing!
Thanks for your thoughts...you all are wonderful!
