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I have a couple books on sex, I have been known to trot these out to point out the reality.

Frankly, once a man has fallen for the fiction of porn, they are almost beyond help.

I also find men who are the male version of whores really distasteful. I don't even bother with them because where making love is concerned, we are speaking a completely different language, he is shaking hands, I am giving a part of my heart, NOT THE SAME THING.

In my last relationship, my partner, ever since she had a child , found it difficult to have an orgasm from penetration. But her sex drive was incredible and sex was always great. We gave and we took. I particularly enjoyed giving oral sex because it immediately worked. Her enjoyment was unmatched and that is why I loved it .....it turned me on also. What is the point in being intimate if one does not please the other?

I think most men think if a women doesnot have an orgaism by penatration that it is not a real orgaism! or if the women orgaisms one time that they have pleased her good enough and well for some women one is just the cone and we would love the icecream at lest and maybe some chocolic syrup and if they are very nice maybe some whip cream and a cherry on top..... I hate the cone.....

Great analogy freebubbles. And funny too !

It's a little hard (pardon the pun) as a guy to receive more than the cone (another funny term) at any one time. But I know what you are saying as a woman on the receiving end. I am envious of the woman's capabilities !!

LOL I ment I hate just the cone....not the ah Cone its self....lol *blushing*

I didnt realy realize who that read until I just reread it....but you are right!

I am more creative then I thought!

agreed bubbles

i don't like ear kissing. i've only liked it from one person but usually it turns me off. lol sorry to be so g-rated lol.

LOL!!! well g rated is better the hard core XXX-rated!

lol.. i know.. i could have so gone into the naughty details of what I don't like... and I have seen a lot! Wait, I just made myself sound like some two dollar whore LOL

Wait! That's Misstress Jase to you ;0)

ok Misstress Jase! Is your mind as sick as you advar looks?

lol just jokeing!!!

poor little advar gots a tempature!!!!