Frieda,
Do you have a "Christopher and Banks" store near you? They are great for those of us between "Juniors and Matrons", LOL! They have clothes that aren't skin-tight but look nice, are of good quality and reasonably priced. I've found lots of good outfits there, and they have more to choose from than the "maternity tops". My 61 year old mom shops there too, but she's not a "matronly" dresser, she likes fun, colorful clothes and finds those types of things there.
I also like to shop at Kohls, but they do have lots of "maternity tops" there right now. That's where I tried some on and rejected them all.
Cindy