BellaOnline Forums Relationships Relationships Little bit confused?

just to say - I can understand how y'all would get started being in the same account. You've been tryng to work out a lot together.

My husband once posted for me when I was very ill, so people wuold not wonder where I was.

But you are more likely to get individualized answers if you each have your own account - and probably more honest ones, too. I'm afraid people might be guarded in how they talk - because they don't know wihch one they're talking to!

another way to look at it as well Michelle ;0)

I am another who thinks it odd to have a spouse/bf/friend whoever post on your account except in the very situation that Michelle proposed.

And I have to add here that calling someone who cannot type/write a word clearly "computer illiterate" is very mis-leading. It is possible to not understand computers and still understand the written word.

In the end, if you can work through your problems and still have a relationship, more power to you, but if what you wrote previously is true, then however long you choose to drag it out, it's over.

Dez

I am so dissapointed and let down by the recent reactions from the people here at bella. So I will let you all get back to what this forum is supposed to be about "relationships" cause I think everyone is getting off track and focusing on who's actually the one typing on ones account. I don't know maybe I don't find it strange because I'm a very honest person and I am not trying to fake or pretend to be someone else.