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The reason is simple: You magnify every good thing he does all out of proportion ... and then you minimize the bad things; this way when you're upset you start to question WHY your upset and want to leave because you think he nice most of the time. Reality is, you're hanging on because of what you THINK HE IS CAPABLE of rather than what he actually doing.

Dez

All I can say is leave him. It's quite obvious from this point of view that he doesnt respect you. Without respect there is no solid ground to stand on. Respect is what keeps us from saying exactly what is on our mind and instead we sugar coat things to take care of our partners. He is saying out loud and clear that he doesnt want you near him or with him when he is out doing God knows what.