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Re: Verbal abuse that stings
#277350 10/27/06 01:31 AM
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when does verbal abuse go too far? Stupid. dumb, worthlesss, never amount to anything, only good for sex. HOw do I convience my husband that I love him and that I am not a cheater, he is? HOw do I stop the crying and the suicidal thoughts? He wont allow me to take the medication that the doctors have given me for anxiety and depression. I am a walking time bomb. I am not alllowed to have friends.My mother refuses to talk to me due to him. My father lives 2000 miles away. I can be in a crowded room and feel all alone. I am desperate for some one to talk to.I am afraid of him. He says that he will never divorce me and that he wiill kill me if i try to leave again. I have tried to leave 3 times over 5 years but he always brings me back. I just dont kno what to do.


This is very sad. this man is a sadist. Get out and talk to police.
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Re: Verbal abuse that stings
#277351 10/27/06 01:43 AM
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last night he told me that he stays on the phone with his ex girlfriend at night when i am at work be3cause he knows that it upsets me!!! he said that he presses ignore on the phone just to know that I am getting more and more angry, and that he finds it funny. He said that it is payback for me being so bad to him all of these years and ignoring HIS needs. Than the next day he tells me its going to be one of two things you will either end up dead or i will just get tired of you and walk away. So.... I ask which will it be? He says that we will play it day by day and see what I do next to irritate him. I have gone to the DA's office but guess who works there???? the ex. So I know for a fact that she will tell him. Where else do I go?
Re: Verbal abuse that stings
#277352 10/27/06 05:35 AM
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The National Domestic Abuse Hotline, which is answered 24 hours a day 365 days a year is 1-800-7997233 or 1-800-787-3224. This way you go around the local authorities if you are afrid you husband might find out about that. They also have asearch feature on their site so you can find local help. I have sent you an e-mail. Tell me where you'll be when and I'll try to have help come to you.

DJC in Norwich, UK

www.donnajcarty.co.uk
I welcome comments on my website.
Re: Verbal abuse that stings
#277353 10/27/06 07:40 AM
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thank you!!!!!!
Re: Verbal abuse that stings
#277354 10/28/06 02:17 PM
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If you have a YWCA local, call them, they may have volunteers who will meet you somewhere and take you to a safe place and call the police to file a report. If you can email me privately domesticviolence@bellaonline.com and tell me what state you are in, better yet the city as well, I can send you numbers and addresses. If you get in a safe house or shelter, he won't be able to touch you. You can get a restraining order and if he comes near you, he will be arrested. That is what I had to do to my abuser to get him to leave me and my kids alone. He sat in jail for 15 days with murderers and child molestors. It changed him and he realized what road he was going down. But there is no way in Hades I will take him back. Please send me a message and I will help you get in touch with some help.

Jeanette Stingley - Women's Lit
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Re: Verbal abuse that stings
#277355 12/04/06 07:03 PM
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This is why I am working so hard to make a difference, regarding the abuse women like yourself are facing. What can I say, I would advised to make up your mind contact the battered women shelters, contact to police from that location advise them of the threat on your life and be prepared to commit to the change. I know it won't be easy but we are talking about your life here. Wounds can heal, but there is only one you. My name is Gary Lloyd James and i am speaking out against domestic violence at my website www.garyjamespoetry.com. Hang on I am doing all I can to create awarness.

One Man Standing Up and Speaking Out Against Domestic Violence
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