i am not good with words, but i realy think you girls sel yourselves short. cleaned up, hair done up, nice clothes that fit well,good shapeing that fits well bra girdels etc. and i have seen some knock outs BBW'S rock, but ive seen many bbw's slopy you can see the bra through the blouse thats dirty and don't fit the back is up to her kneck, in the front there is more out of the cup than in. if you are going around looking like that the stares are probly not good. but if you are looking good the stares can probly be taken as a complement