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hey any single women get this line "Honey, All you need to solve all your problem is a man," ? I all was thought this was a oxymoron. I got married and now I still have the same old money problem and worries as i did before. I think some where in my head i must have thought that a piece of paper (Marriege licence) would magikly change me in to a rich blond, with agreat bod. and I would like in king aurtor Castle and live the good life forever and ever AMEN.
or that what i was lead to being. so if geting married is soimprotent to solving my problems... why do i still have them?
I love my hubby and he is wonderful but he aint that WONDERFULL!! LOL
i wonder who's brain child thought up men+kids=no problems?
now i get the other versus "A baby will make you life so much more fulfilling." i the while there sceaming at the top of there lung tring to coltrol there 4 unruly kids....
I believe that if i want kids i will find a good parent and borrow there kids then when i get tired i can send them back to mommy. if i want a baby of my own i can find abad parent with wild uncontorled, disresptectfull 8year old and borrow then. Mommy sicking cured!!!

I don't like the statement, "Oh, you'll feel different once you find the right man," because that insinuates that females are fundamentally incapable of making their own decisions and sticking with them without a man.

Frankly, the "right" man is going to be CF, too. So there goes that argument.

Then there are those who feel no need to be in any kind of a relationship nor do they desire to, and no, their lives aren't empty in any way.

what is CF? im new at computer short hand!! is it Crazy Forever?LOL my hubby is and i think always will be!LOL

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Daha I should have known I get it now thank you.

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i always wanted to say ( ok i said) I dont want Mr. Right as in Know-it -all I want Mr. Right-now of course i hardly ever dated either. i got by with BOB. and i an not sure it would be ok to post what BOB stands for but if you think you will get it... <img src="/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/images/graemlins/devil.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" /> Hint Batteries not included... shame on me <img src="/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Maybe it's just me, but when I get around a group of Mommies discussing gas pains, swollen feet, and sleepness nights, or the latest antics of their juvenile delinquent offspring, I don't feel "left out" so much as just the tiniest bit smug....like, aren't I the clever one for figuring out that having children would put a serious chokehold on my fun-o-meter?

lol haha its true!!!

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