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Why is sex becoming a predominant part of relationships? Even when I read about dating, sex crops up immediately. There are many other important parts to a relationship and human life is much more valuable than thinking of only sex. Even on the Internet, porno websites are scoring over all other websites. Why this trend and where will it lead ultimately?

Sex is only a part. Relationship is the relationship between two hearts. It is ever lasting if and only if you understand we are into a relatioship for the Bliss.
Bliss is eternal, beyond age and sex.

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Thus have I heard:

When the sex life is good in a relationship, it's about 5% in importance.
When the sex life is not good in a relationship, it's about 95% in importance.

That is a great example Alexandra.. It is sooo true..

yes very true. i think once sex life become dull it makes a bigger impact to the relationship than when sex life is good. I think sex should not be the most important part of a relationship. I think if 2 people have a strong bonding that is enough for them to have sex then sex is only the extra part of it because w/o sex, it should be just as good.

<img src="/images/graemlins/beamedup.gif" alt="" /> great that you posted that..and theres truth to it as well

there is also a great difference between sex and making love sex being an action between two people
making love uses body mind and spirit!

the culture we are now part of is sex mad it is used in everything selling cars,movies, adverts, fashion,trends etc
no matter which way you turn its there.
thankfully they could never do that to the art of making love as it cannot be recreated!

there is also a great difference between sex and making love sex being an action between two people
making love uses body mind and spirit!

This is true.

very true

I think we live is a world where sex is everywhere, so we are in some way influenced by it.