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Cola - then don't lose an inch! You are yourself. Is that you in the avatar? (You do not need to worry about your looks!!)

Cola I have a question for you!! Are you Solid? when i was your age and about 30 pound heaver i was solid. I could lift my weight, not with bar bells and such but... if you are healthy and active your scale numbers dont mean $*^!. I was all musal and just as active as any of my friends! I ate the normal diebetic diet. but i could not lose weight because i was musal and bone!!! you dont want to lose those!! turst me i did and felt like [censored].

well, im a little solid. i mean, i have a little belly.. nd the thing i hate most is my arms!! ugggh i cant stand it. but u know, my mom is big, and my dad is big, so its like i have no choice but to be big!! i cant diet to lose weight, but it does make me feel better. i guess im better off big then. ;]

As long as you feel health and have no health problems your weight means nothing!!! the problem is when you feel sick ALL the time and have health problems.

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Good For you!!! I try to lose weight and i just get sick!!! i would rather stay at 222 and be health then get sick and be in the ER!!! It took me a long time to get to that point but my hubby likes me just the way i am and he has seen me at 165 and i looked really bad!!! my hair was falling out and i could not stay awake for more then 1 hr at a time!!! and i spent 3 days in the hospital... I was in Ketosis from no insulin and on the Akins deit!!! I have gotten down to 185 on a diet i made up.... but my blood sugars went hey wire because i couldnt get my meds soo...i have gained it back so here i am...back one my made up diet!!! (but it taste good so it all good!!!!)

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well sorta, moneys tight and insulin is not cheep but it is alot better now!! If i could get the drs of my back about my weight i think they could find a better way to help me!!! every time i get sick they tell me im fat, go on a diet!!! i think i may have low thiroid but they wont check it!!! and i can only afford the clinic and they have only one dr i can see so... i try my best!!!

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i agree but as long as the drs get kick backs for not doing test and pushing meds... they get rich and we get sicker and round and round we go!!!