Hey, Harleygirl...
First of all, you might want to turn off your caps lock, so people don't think you're shouting.
Almost all new piercings swell up to varying degrees. Part of why ring jewelry is recommended for new piercings is because there are no ends that then get trapped in the swelling.
You should go back to the place you got it pierced and have someone actually take a look your nose piercing. If the end is almost being lost inside the piercing, you might really want to get a larger piece of jewelry, as that can lead to healing problems or the formation of scar tissue if it rubs too much.