I/we have gone around on this topic too. I can understand where your wife is coming from when she talks about her clock ticking and feeling like her job is not giving her the satisfaction she needs.
My advice is to go to counseling. Maybe she needs to remind herself of what a committed husband she has and counseling may bring that out. Maybe re-vamping your home routine and whooping it up some in the bedroom may make her feel vibrant again (not assuming you guys are not doing this already). A happy romantic humorous home life can make a woman forget about a "ticking clock". Maybe she's a little tired of all the traveling and wants to spend time at home and having a baby is a good way to make sure of that. I like what someone else said, "throw her a surprise birthday party."
Advice on thoughts about being alone if you don't have a baby: there is no guarantee that your child is going to dote on you when you get old. He/she may look at how you have traveled the world and your adult-son/daughter may live half-way around the world and only send letters and pictures. Parents really have no guarantee that their kids are going to be there for them and do you really want to put that burden/guilt on your children?
She wants another dog, have her get a puppy. Trust me, she will forget about the baby issue after a new puppy is in the home! I am so serious, trust me!
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