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#202139 07/18/05 11:29 AM
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Lisa I blew it!! *sobbing*

I decided to 'get serious' and go low carb..even lost 10 lbs. but then we went on vacation... and I blew it!

I ate whatever I wanted during that one week..only a week!...and got home to find that I had gained all but one pound of that 10 back. <img src="/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />

I am so depressed and discouraged...I've all but given up on this... thinking that I am just meant to be over weight for the rest of my life.

How do I get away from this thinking?? what now??

~help~

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#202140 07/18/05 11:36 AM
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added note..

This happened the first week of July... and I can't seem to get back into the groove- I litterally have given up! What's worse is I don't just eat normal the way I use to.. the depressing fact that I gained all my weight back has caused me to eat even worse then before.

now Im afraid to even get on the scale to see how much more damage Ive caused myself.

am i just a hopeless case here??

#202141 07/18/05 12:30 PM
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I know I'm not Lisa and I don't have her area expertise in low-carb dieting, but I have been a yo-yo dieter for most of the past 15 years. If you gained back 10 lbs. in one week after losing it on a low-carb diet, I would be willing to bet A LOT of the weight you put back on is water weight. Anytime you diet, and are choosing your foods carefully, your sodium intake is going to go down, especially if you are eating a lot of fresh foods. If you ate out at a lot of restaurants, then they probaly used more salt and seasonings than you've been using at home, so don't beat your self up about that 10 pounds!

The problem has now become that you are so depressed about that 10 pounds that you can't seem to get your head back focused on what you were trying to do. I don't know how much you weigh (I'm not asking!), but your picture is beautiful! Focus on that instead.

Lisa, let us know if this is a bad idea.

Charise, if you can't get started back on the whole diet all at once, try doing it in stages. Anything from starting with water, add a fish, cut back a bagel, add a salad, cut back a banana, etc.
OR you could try doing it one meal at a time; you know you are goin to burn off your carbs for breakfast, so save that meal for last - start with dinner. For a week do low carb dinners, then the next continue w/ dinner & make lunch low carb, too, then the next - breakfast, then your snacks... Just find YOUR way to get started again. It may not be the "book-perfect" way to do it, but as long as it gets you back on track, then go for it.

Good luck! (DON'T look at the scale for at least 1 month!)


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#202142 07/18/05 02:32 PM
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Hey Charise,

I've been there before - I lost 18lbs in 6 weeks last summer and felt fantastic after - I lost another 2 lbs in the next week or so and then after that my weight stayed the same for awhile but I got so sick and tired of 'dieting' that I went back to habits worse then before - it's a crazy cycle and I hope to break it. I'm doing low carb right now but I KNOW it's not the answer for me (no offense Lisa). I enjoy too many foods that are basically bad carbs and for me I can do a program for 6 weeks or whatever but a lifetime?? It's just not feasible for me. Maybe I have no willpower - maybe I just don't want to lose the weight bad enough or maybe depriving myself of certain foods just doesn't feel good to me so I'm not going to stick to it forever. Ok so you blew it - it's only 10 lbs and you can get rid of that in just a few weeks of strict eating. I don't know what the key is to get YOU back on track - that's something you have to decide for yourself but I know you have posted a lot of really positive things on this site and you've made me feel motivated many a time when I didn't want to. If that avatar is a pic of you I can honestly say you are a beautiful looking woman. Don't give up now. I find the more I tell myself I can't have something, the more I want it. So maybe for now you could eat just a little bit of those foods you may be missing - nothing's going to blow it if you eat in moderation. And stop beating yourself up about one week - heck you were on vacation - I bet you had a fabulous time!! Go get your nails done or your hair styled and get back on the horse slowly and steadily - you can do it!!

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oh and yes - I gained back the 20lbs but in 5 weeks of low carbing I've managed to lose 10 lbs again. I've plateaued for the past 3 weeks though. It sure can be frustrating.

#202144 07/19/05 12:06 AM
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You know...I think maybe just being aware of where I am here, and even posting about it has helped (those who keep a blog or journal really might be onto something there! <img src="/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />)

As for the picture there, yes it's me..but taken a few years ago... my face is a little bit pudgier then that now..lol.. but most of my trouble area is from the waist down... *sighs*

Im going to try again!!..I swear it!... erm..right after I finish this can of coke *hides head in shame*

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Even a little "pudgier" I am sure you're still gorgeous! And BTW the new Coke Zero is the Coke Classic formula made with Splenda, so it tastes more like "real coke" than does Diet Coke or Diet Coke w/ Splenda (different formula).

Hubby works for Coca-cola enterprises, I made him go ask the difference!


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#202146 07/19/05 12:34 AM
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aww..thanks for the vote of confidence!

I will definately have to check out this Coke Zero- my SO is the real coke drinker in the family; maybe I can turn him onto it!...unfortunately my kids took it upon themselves to drink all my bottles of water and there just wasn't anything else in the house that sounded remotely pleasing to me..and I was sooo thirsty...so I took what was there in the fridge <img src="/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />

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my lower body is my problem too but i'm slowly losing inches. Pilates is great exercise and you can get inexpensive DVD's or videos and workout at home! You don't spend a long time doing it either and you end up feeling really good afterwards.

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ahh..I've heard really good things about pilates too!

Im just afraid that I wouldn't commit to watching it <img src="/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" /> I'm the worst when it comes to watching things on TV..I sometimes don't even bother watching my favorite night time sit coms if i get too busy on the comp.

I did find a fun little health channel on cable's 'On Demand' though and actually tried to do the work out with the instructor.. only thing was it was some sort of hula/hawian belly dancing thing and my attempts at that turned out to be more comical then cardio!! lol

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