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There is more to it then that,I have a friend that's a guy a long distance relationship,he's my husbands best friend this relationship has been going on for almost 3 years when we first started talking he told me we'll say 5 years he's also mairred! What do you think? Oh and by the way he makes a pretty good living himself!

Hi Joy,

Your dream may be a "push" from your subconscious to move toward resolving your marital issues by deciding whether you are going to remain in the marriage or move toward the other relationship. What is holding you back?

This man is your husband's best friend. I'm sure that you're aware that this is unfair to your husband, and your dream may have come from feelings of guilt. You may want to consider that it would be best for him to find out from you than to find out some other way. Have you been able to communicate your dissatisfaction in the marriage to him?

Pay attention to the dreams you've had since then, even the ones that don't seem to be related to this one at all. Remember that dreams speak to us in symbols and that other dreams can fill in important pieces.

As you are sharing more about your situation, it seems that the male in the dream clearly represents a wish to be rescued or taken care of. Again, stores and shops in dreams represent opportunities in life. It may be time to make changes.

Hi Joy,

Then am I correct in assuming that you're not willing to leave your marriage until you're sure he's going to leave his? If you're miserable in your own marriage, would it be better for you and your girls to leave regardless of whether he'll be there for you?

You said that you've been involved with him for three years and he asked you to wait for five years, is that correct? That's two more years. Maybe you're frustrated and tired of waiting?

Have you heard the long-standing rumor that married men don't leave their wives? Many times, they never intend to leave. Why should they, when they can "have their cake and eat it too?" The movie "Waiting to Exhale" describes it very well in the relationship that Whitney Houston's character had with a married man who kept saying he'd get his divorce "next year."

I've come to the conclussion that he is never going to leave his wife even though he keeps me hanging on! A friend of mine told me that he is telling me what I want to hear just so I will be happy and so he can keep me dangling! Also my friends mother told me after she read my palm that she could feel that he has someone else besides me and his wife, I still want to keep him as a friend! I was told that because of my husbands health problems that he will die this coming summer and that there will be someone New that comes into the picture but it won't be until my husbands passing and it will be someone that my son works with,so I will just hand on for that and I was also told that it will be after my daughter graduates from High School which will be this coming May and I will only have to worry about my youngest daughter which is 13 and she will turn 14 this coming August!

Hi Joy,

I'm so glad to hear that you are seeing things realistically. If you can remain friends without complications, that would be great.

Remember that the messages we get in readings don't always come about in the way we expect and sometimes not even in the time frame we expect. Take comfort in that things will come together for you and focus on the present. When we are continually focused on the future, we tend to miss out on what's going on right under our noses <img src="/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" />

Good luck and blessings!