Took me awhile to get what you were saying (it's me, not you), but I think I get it.
But first, I'm stunned we've actually gotten to a point in society where, "friends" come out and say such insensitive things. I'd call again and again until you haul-asd yourself over and we could talk one on one. It's a pain...like losing a child when a loved one passes.
On a different note, my parents had a couple they'd hang out with. We were all inseperable. But then the husband died and the wife never came to our house again.
I remember this as this couple was unusually supportive, like best friends and I went to the funeral. I, as a kid, asked why doesn't (XYZ) come to us anymore?
My mom said, it reminds her too much of when we were all together in pairs...now that, I actually got.
For the life of me I can't think WHY people would tell a person they are NOT welcome after a spouse passes away. I am sorry to those whom have had that happen. Terrible human behavior...
