Agapi ~ I have a question.....did your dh marry you for YOU, or did he marry you to be a baby maker?
Although you should have made the decision to either have or not have children with him - BEFORE marriage, it's a bit late for that now. Therefore, you should NOW sit down with him, face to face, and tell him exactly how you feel. DO NOT let the pressure from others sway you into having a kid. This is your body, your decision. It is not the decision of society, in-laws, or anyone else.
I'm sure you have thought about/remembered the sleepless nights, the financial strain, no time for yourself, and countless other things you went through raising your daughter. Are you willing to do that again?
I must repeat > this is your decision, nobody else.
Best of luck. Please keep posting. I'm anxious to hear what your decision will be.
cp