I recently discovered that my husband had been communicating with several women via the internet. Yes, I snooped! My radar had been going off for some time and curiosity got the best of me. Not only had he located his former college lover, but he was communicating on a regular basis with random fb friends via his inbox. Needless to say, this was a serious blow to my self esteem. I think what shocked me the most was his willingness to share his thoughts and feelings with "strangers" when I literally have to pull words out of his mouth. He says that nothing went pass these communications. I think I believe him only because his time is accounted for. I have temporarily moved out of our bedroom because I felt like I need time and space to think this through.
My question is, how do I get pass this? Right now it feels like I might never be able to forgive let alone forget. My friend thinks I'm making too big a deal out of it because there was no physical contact. I feel betrayed all the same...
