They are ok. There are good days and bad. As long as we don't hear from her or see her life is good. Unfortunately those days are few and far between. I don't know that there has ever been more than a a few days time without her non-stop text and picture messages. She keeps her kids dangled right in front of his nose like carrots. It is pathetic really.
It just kills me that he doesn't see it. I don't know how he doesn't see it. I just can't imagine wanting to be apart of someone's life, if they had treated my husband the way that I have been treated. I understand she is his daughter, but I honestly say that I would NEVER stand for ANYONE to treat him the way she has treated me.
I know that he feels stuck in the middle. I know that I should be the bigger person and take the high road. My head tells me all of these things, however my heart just won't let me do it. I do not trust her. I think that she is poison, and I want her no where near my family. I honestly feel broken as a wife, a mother, and a person. And I honestly think that one of the biggest reasons that I can't get over it is because I feel like he allowed it to happen. I feel completely and totally betrayed by him. So, maybe it is the betrayal by him that I can't get past or maybe it is the way his daughter is allowed to treat others, I am not real sure. However, I just hope that I can figure it out soon, as this is literally ripping me in two.