wow, Im sorry to hear your situation. Do you both go to therapy or just him? I know its annoying when people say "hang in there things will get better" but it will, just have to give it some time and let yourself process the emotions and you'll see what you need to do. I too am going through a difficult time, but I have found support through this site, even by just reading all the past posts. My heart goes out to you in your time of need.