I told her the same thing I told my brother when he had his last kid, "look, I love you, I'll love the kid and would take a bullet for it, but I don't have plans to like touch it or deal with it ever, until it hits like 15 or 16."
OMG, you actually told her that?...that's very direct
mmmm, I don't think I could ever say that to my sister.
I guess, maybe, the baby will grow on me, who knows? He's just a month old, I've heard they get more interesting as they grow cause then they're able to talk, walk, play, etc.
Thank you for the advise Dolyn. Yes, sounds like the main thing is to let her know that I love her and her baby and will be there for her and give her my help. She looks exhausted even though she's overjoyed.
