Don't mean to hijack your thread, but, I have a FB encounter of my own that relates to yours... My dog was very sick yesterday, so, I posted on facebook how I got up at 5am to clean up her sick all over the carpet, then spent my day either running her outside for EMERGENCY potty breaks or literally having her laying on top of me because she gets clingy when she's sick...then I ended the night by making her rice at 10pm and I added a comment that "why is it again that EVERYBODY wants me to have kids?" My cousin replied that it was because "its unfair that the rest of us deal with that for 18 yrs and you get to go on trips" AND SHE WAS SERIOUS! She really wants me to have kids simply to ruin my life. I see a parallel in my cousin's comment and your friend's.