Jamie,
Looks like you are on the right path. I can tell you this though. When my children were young 2 boys and a girl I use a spray conditioner, leave in daily moisturizer by Pantene and Luster' Pink. It is an oil conditioning lotion. It comes in light and reg. There is a whole line of hair care products that work great together. The shampoo is vey nourishing and soothing to the hair. You can feel the difference in your fingers as you wash the hair.