I agree with you. I lost my husband 3 years ago in December. I still miss him terribly, but Im seeing now, that I'm able to get myself going again. I'm feeling normal again but i have my days too. We all do. I get sick of people telling me to it will get better when they dont even know what it feels like to lose a loved one. I know they mean well and they think they are doing us a favor. Im dont mean no harshness on that but it does take time, but it has to be on your own time, not anyone elses.
