You say you are a believer but not a Christian? The quote is talking about Christians. Believers in that quote are those who have put their faith in Christ.
I'm not saying this to hurt you and it doesn't mean that you and your boyfriend should break up.

It does mean that before anyone thinks about entering into a serious relationship they should have deep discussions about what they both believe. If beliefs are different, it could cause problems in the future.

When I was younger I wouldn't have said that but now I have seen that spiritual beliefs become very important in raising children and even more important as you get older.

EDIT: Since you are falling hard and fast, you should feel comfortable in talking to your boyfriend about how you feel about the sermon. If you don't feel comfortable talking about it -- slow down on the falling.

Last edited by Lynne Chapman; 11/11/08 02:26 PM.