I've always thought "accidents" in this day and age don't really exist that often. Maybe 30 years ago, but birth control is so reliable if you use it the right way. Yeah, people who use condoms, sometimes they break, and you get pregnant. But if they REALLY didn't want to get pregnant, you'd think they'd be more careful and use something more effective. So I don't buy the whole oops thing at all. And I just don't understand those women whose whole lives revolve around having babies. I can't believe only having sex to have babies! Obviously, this person has either never had a big "o", or has been taught all her life to abhor sex that isn't for procreation purposed. That's just sad... Budgie, I'm on facebook too. We should add each other as friends!