Ok. Ok. All of you have made your points and contrary to popular belief, my opinion is just that. An opinion and no, I am not offended by anything that any of you have said. I can see both sides and I wasn't accusing. Never assume as they say.
Land mines don't bother me, they only intrigue me. And I wasn't judging, I was stating my opinion, that's not judging the entire population and yes, I read every single written statement.
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And yes, I don't agree that women should take advantage of their spouse once he is gone, but some do unfortunately and go for the jugular. I was stating the simple fact that there are women out there who don't. And on top of that, I commend you women that say that a man will never run your life for you. Congrats. Yes, I could've told mine at the time "Screw you", I'm going to work anyway, but yes I made the decision in the end, and No, I don't regret it one bit.
And finally, I agree with Owl. We as woman should respect and support each other no matter what decisions we make in this life in regards to having a family, staying home, etc.
