Cindy, my family was a lot like yours in terms of gift giving. "Santa" gave us the majority of our gifts and my grandparents sent us maybe one or two gifts plus maybe a gift from an aunt. It might have been because since the time I was four we lived away from extended family, but I feel like it would have been the same way if we had lived near them. This Christmas was my first as a aunt, and I actually found myself feeling like I had not bought enough to give my nephew (I bought him a "Baby's first Christmas" onesie and matching blanket). Living four states away, I'm not sure what else everyone gave him but I'm sure he was showered with gifts.