You know? I have to agree with iwonder. Your child is too young '"to see that things can be worked through..."'
She's a child for heaven's sake! All she is seeing is a man's cruelty to her mother and to her. Words cut deeply too.

You work through job losses, you work through mortgage payments, you work through problems at school; you can't work through cruelty.

For the sake of your daughter, leave him. Or, as iwonder says so eloquently, your little girl may decide very soon that she wants to be with her Dad.

Last edited by kristen houghton; 05/20/07 08:39 AM.

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