Actually, I do not think it's that simple, small. People do change. People do make themselves better. My husband is a better person to this day and getting better all the time. We just found out we were pregnant two days ago after many months of trying after a miscarriage. In the months since I have posted this, his attitude has changed dramatically. I can't wait to see him as a father. He's really amazed me and put my faith back into the thought that people CAN change.