I agree. I used to beat myself up because my day job wasn't fulfilling or bettering humanity in some tangible way (aside from the argument that civilization needs roads, bridges, sewage treatment, which yes, it does -- I work for engineers).

I totally relate to your husband's crisis, though. I am constantly talking about going back to school, writing a book, tutoring, etc. It would be nice to not dread going to work ;-)

But... At some point I came to terms with having a less than glamorous, well paying day job enabling me to get fulfillment in other areas - volunteer work, travel, reading, etc.

I just think of all my parents' friends (mine included) who got divorced once the kids grew up/moved out and they were stuck alone with each other. They'd forgotten how to interact when it didn't revolve around the kids. How sad.

I think it's all part of being a well-rounded individual. Even CF people can be boring if they are one-track all the time (like the crazy cat-lady).

Last edited by Tbunny; 02/26/07 11:27 PM.