So I had a miscarriage on Valentine's Day of this year. I told the guy who was the baby's father and he hasn't been there for me really. Part of it is because he does live out of state. But he was in town this weekend and promised to see me and then told me he didn't have a vehicle.
Then he invites himself to the movies with me and my friend and shows up drunk talking about nothing really and being rude and making me more upset about the miscarriage.
He's depressed over the miscarriage and wants a baby, but we're barely 18 and he's never stayed in a faithful commited relationship. I just don't know how to deal with this guy. I need him there for me, but I don't want to beg him to be there. We didn't plan on getting pregnant in the first place, especially since we weren't in a relationship. I just don't know what to do. I feel like since I didn't want to be pregnant is why the miscarriage happened, even though I know it isn't true. I sit here and cry over my lost baby and I was used to the facct of becomming a mommy despite it changing my entire life plan.
I'm looking for advice from anyone on how to deal with my lost, deal with this guy, and help me decide what's the best thing to do wether it be wait until later in life to have a baby or to try to have a baby again soon.
Last edited by SBH; 02/19/07 05:25 AM.
