I dont get it either.. haha... i think im sorta on the same boat as you. I thought it was a girl thing but i guess it could happen to guys too. I agree with you. i sometimes just want to talk to the guy i love and be with him 24/7 and talk about deeper stuff... So i dont know. I really think depends on the person though, not all woman are like that... i mean if you guys are pretty close then i think there's nothing wrong to talk serious. But if you guys just started dated and you want to talk about living together and all that jazz... it'll definately scare her away.