Hi I'm new on this site, but was reading some of the other messages, and thought "blimey! i'm not alone!!!" My motto in life, is you can laugh or cry, but crying makes your eyes puffy!! But sometimes i just have to get out the tissues, after 7 miscarriages in two years or so and god knows how many Doctors telling me to go and try again i think i've kept Kleenex in buisness, strangely enough it's only been recently i found a doctor who thought there might be a problem, he told me i faced numerous tests and investigations, many of them not pleasant, but actually wanted to see my husband as well (he was terrified) So at last Someone doesn't think i'm over reacting or that its all my fault!! has anyone been through anything similar? does anyone have any suggestions for me? Does anyone just want to chat about their experiences with this, My husband admits he doesn't like to talk about it, thats his way of dealing, but i want to talk about this, how to deal with everything and how to look forward to the next possibility...