Hi there, my name is Griff, and my wife had a miscarriage almost a year ago.
We were in our 9th week, and were on holiday in New York when it happenned.
It was pretty horrific, and all happend on New Years Eve to make it even worse.
My wife had to have a D&C on New Years Day before we flew home in case there were any complications.
It was a very tought 3/4 months immediately after it, and we have decided to not try again for a while.
the thing is, although I am obviously extremely sensitive to her, I feel that she is still affected by it, even this far down the line.
She blames a lot of things "on the miscarriage" and I am finding it very hard to deal with it.
I do understand that it is a totally different thing to deal with obviously the physical side of things, but I was just wondering if there are any other guys on here who could offer some words of support or anyone else who has been in the same situation ?
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