I am sorry if this note offended anyone. <img src="/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" /> I don't know of a really good way to solve this problem. I agree that sending hateful emails is wrong and I would hope no one would do something so hurtful.

I have had a healthy child myself since my recurrent miscarriages and I completely understand wanting to show pictures of one's children. But I also know that for someone whose miscarriages are more recent that it can indeed be painful to see pictures that remind them of what they lost.

A possible solution? I have just seen in the control panel that there is an option that you can check if you click on "My Home" and then display preferences. There is an option there to not view other users' pictures or signatures with their posts. It is true that the picture in question was an avatar image and it appears on all posts on all boards, so I know that it was not posted here purposefully...and I don't want anyone to stop posting here because I know that having a healthy child does not make the pain of miscarriages go away.

Anyway, I just want to find the solution that best serves everyone's needs. I agree that a thread of hope would be a great idea.

Good day to all and again, I'm always open to comments.

--Krissi