My husband wants to help his ex wife financially because she lost her job and he wants her and his kids to move here. They are currently out of state. She has no money to move here and has relied on child support to support herself. The kids always have old clothes that don't fit. I understand he wants his kids nearby but I'm upset about him helping her out financially. We're trying to get ourselves out of debt so it's not like he has excess funds to help her. Helping her would probably put us further into debt. Do I have a right to be upset?? Her mother is done helping her financially.