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#786477 - 10/06/12 04:24 AM
Re: How to rid oneself of suffering.
[Re: loongdragon]
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Zebra
Registered: 04/13/05
Posts: 3194
Loc: IL
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Ridding one's self of suffering...
Well, in my opinion, it can be made as complicated as another can make it. As deep as another might want it...
From what I've found, the answer is really, and I mean really simple.
Suffering comes from within.
And, much of suffering comes from purification of self, which often entails, self-loathing of that which the Entity or Soul wishes or is on path to purge or learn at the juncture of the suffering.
You could climb the highest mountain, kneel to the Pope himself, find the most exotic island or name or (re-named) individual who themselves have found their own purification, yet it will not be that of your own, for that in itself, to have access, lies only within...
Exchanges, partnerships, readings and writings are merely guide-posts helping you along your way.
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Karen Elleise Clairvoyance Editor
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#787043 - 10/10/12 03:10 AM
Re: How to rid oneself of suffering.
[Re: loongdragon]
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Parakeet
Registered: 09/21/12
Posts: 881
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Dear Jilly,
Buddhism uses a language that is different from other sorts of
spirituality .The one originally given was ,as I had mentionned
a harsh text.I could have written something simpler,however,this is a buddhist site.If you so desire ,I will write my own conception,in easyer words .Buddhism is not for the faint of heart.I have been reading the same book for more than 3 months now.By the way ,you can buy a e-book by Lisa for 99 cents.
I have downloaded it ,printed it,and tomorrow i will make it as a book with a real cover and everything.
Again I reiterate,if you absolutly want me to simplify the original text,I will do it, but still in buddhist words.
Your's friendly
loongdragon
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#794867 - 12/02/12 12:16 AM
Re: How to rid oneself of suffering.
[Re: loongdragon]
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Parakeet
Registered: 09/21/12
Posts: 881
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To all or none,
Almost evryday ,I sit with 3persons sharing,practicing my compassion,my patience.
It is unbelievable,how people create their sufferings,with fears,negative talks, Never trying to find a way tosee life as beautiful.
There I sit,analizing their ways of thinking,and not understanging,why they like to suffer so much.Sometimes,I slip a phrase of metta.
People really adore suffering.......
Loong
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#795141 - 12/03/12 08:07 PM
Re: How to rid oneself of suffering.
[Re: loongdragon]
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Parakeet
Registered: 09/21/12
Posts: 881
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Dear Lori-Dreams, the main reason of suffering for humans,is :desires not met,clinging to many things In reality makes them suffer.This morning in the newspaper a mother drowns her 3children Suffering to the extreme.
Abeaten woman staying in the hell she lives,,a man desiring women in a unnormal way,wanting more and more money,when so little is necessary.
The main reason for suffering,is craving,I believe followed by attachment,then fetters.
Hope this was a sufficient answer. People are their own tortionnary.No one else. , Loong
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#795172 - 12/04/12 02:01 AM
Re: How to rid oneself of suffering.
[Re: loongdragon]
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Parakeet
Registered: 09/21/12
Posts: 881
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Dear Lori-dreams,
Do you beleive ,one can transcend suffering and live a blissfull life,not knowing suffering,not knowing earthly happiness.
In buddhism it is called bliss.When one has detached himself from the fetters ,craving,attachment of the 6 senses,the 6 th being the mind.
I am not saying I have attained enlightenment,far from that ,I am not an arahant but the microscopic moments of suffering ,i still have are immediatly replaced by mindfullness.The NOW.
with respect loong
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#795725 - 12/11/12 12:30 AM
Re: How to rid oneself of suffering.
[Re: loongdragon]
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Parakeet
Registered: 09/21/12
Posts: 881
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To all or none , Buddha and the ceasing of suffering.
text by B.S.gift from loong.
Friends:
No Craving is the Ceasing of all Suffering!
The Blessed Buddha once said: What, now, is this Noble Truth on the Elimination of all Suffering? It is the complete fading away & irreversible elimination of all Craving, the rejection & leaving of it, & the liberating release from it! SN 56:11
But where may this craving vanish, where may it be extinguished? Wherever in the world, there are delightful and pleasurable things! Right there and then may this craving be overcome, and quenched... DN 22
Be it in the past, the present, or in any future, whatever true recluse considers all delightful, attractive & pleasurable things in this world as impermanent anicca, as miserable dukkha, & as without a self anatta, as diseases & as cancers, it is he who conquers craving... SN 12:66
By final fading away and elimination of craving, clinging also ceases; By the elimination of clinging, the process of becoming also ceases; By the elimination of the process of becoming, rebirth also ceases; Through the elimination of all rebirth, all decay, ageing & death!, sorrow, lamentation, pain, grief, & despair is finally extinguished... Only that is the eradication of this entire mass of Suffering... SN 12:43
Thus one becomes an Arahant/Buddha[loong]
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#796166 - 12/15/12 03:05 AM
Re: How to rid oneself of suffering.
[Re: loongdragon]
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Parakeet
Registered: 12/16/08
Posts: 916
Loc: Los Angeles, CA
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I have a question for you.Would you rather have a life filled only with happiness,or one sprinkled with doses of suffering.
In my case ,I do not believe suffering is a necessity in life.
Loong
After having studied Buddhism for so long, I would say that I agree with you, because I know what is meant by 'suffering' in Buddhism (or at least at the level of understanding I am at -there is always more to understand.) But I think for many people this word 'suffering' is confusing. Many people ask me, how can you ever say suffering is avoidable, when things like what happened today in Connecticut, with 27 people killed, including 20 children, occur? How can we say suffering is avoidable for those parents? Should we not mourn or feel their pain? It is no an easy thing to reconcile the idea of moving beyond suffering and the idea of openheartedness in Buddhism. It is easy intellectually, but not to really reconcile it within one's own being. In many ways I think it is the heart of the path - to learn how to hold the pain of the world in one's heart, not to deny it (which is what too many seekers do in the name of detachment I find), but to hold it in one's heart with loving compassion, and still to feel the peace of existence at the same time. Really, to hold both the joy and sorrow of existence in one's heart, denying nothing. This is to know oneself as the universe.
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#797862 - 12/26/12 07:52 PM
Re: How to rid oneself of suffering.
[Re: loongdragon]
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Parakeet
Registered: 09/21/12
Posts: 881
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To all or none,
Craving the cause of suffering,by Banthe
Friends:
That Craving Causes Pain is a Noble Truth!
The Blessed Buddha once said: What, now, is the Second Noble Truth on the Cause of Suffering? The Cause of suffering is Craving, which bound up with pleasure and desire, delighting now here, now there, gives rise to renewed rebirth! SN 56:11 But where and when does this Craving arise and take root? Wherever in the world there are delightful and pleasurable objects, exactly right there & then this craving arises, takes root & grows... The eye, ear, nose, tongue, body, mind, forms, sounds, smells, tastes, touches, ideas, thoughts, mental states, consciousness of sensation, sense contacts, feelings born of contact, perceptions, intentions, cravings, thoughts, & reflections are all attractive and pleasurable: Right there & then this toxic craving arises, roots & grows... This is called the Noble Truth on the Origin of Suffering! DN 22
Feeling is the Cause of Craving: If perceiving a form, sound, smell, taste, touch, idea, or mental state as pleasant, then one is attracted: Right there craving, greed, desire, lust, longing and urge is born. Pleasant feeling thus causes Greed! If perceiving the sense object as unpleasant, then one is repelled: Right there hate, anger, aversion, antipathy, and opposition is born! Unpleasant or painful feeling thus causes Hate & all its derivatives! If perceiving the object as neither pleasant nor unpleasant, then one is disinterested, and thus neither observes nor examines the object: Right there Ignorance, neglect, unawareness, and disregard is born... Neutral & indifferent feeling thus causes Ignorance to arise! MN 38 The 3 kinds of Craving: 1: There is craving for Sensing forms, sounds, smells, tastes, touches, ideas, thoughts and mental objects & states! (This is Kāma-Tanhā)... 2: There is craving for Becoming this or that like rich, healthy, famous, beautiful, respected, successful & adored etc. (This is Bhava-Tanhā)... 3: There is craving for Non-Becoming this or that like poor, sick, dead, ignored, disregarded, ugly, failed & despised. (This is Vibhava-Tanhā)... DN 22
Loong's comment:As one can see suffering in Buddhism might be different than in other paths.
loong
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