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, Each one of you have rights and duties of the other, and these rights are fixed in the Shar-Hakim; because Allaah says: {And due to the wives is similar to what is expected of them, according to what is reasonable} [Baqarah: 228].
And he peace be upon him said: "you for your wives and your wives you really really" Narrated by Tirmidhi and classed.
The wife on her husband many rights including:
1 - is the greatest right of protection against fire
This consideration and take the good and Nhiaha evil said: ((6) O you who have believed, protect yourselves and your families from a Fire whose fuel is people and stones, over which are [appointed] angels, harsh and severe; they do not disobey Allah in what He commands them but do what they are commanded) (prohibition: 6), as well as urging them to special prayer the Almighty said: ((132) And enjoin prayer upon your family [and people] and be steadfast therein. We ask you not for provision; We provide for you, and the [best] outcome is for [those of] righteousness) (Taha: 132). As I have a wife who does not pray should be left to her husband and also a paradox here does not pray may not stay with her ...
And protection parents: to urge them to wear hijab and chastity.
2 - to spend on her:
Alimony to the wife and clothing of the rights due to the wife and hyper a lot of people, and said peace be upon him who asked him about the wife's right to it (to feed her if exposed and capped if Akedzit or acquired, and hit his face and ugly and abandoned only in the House) Narrated by Abu Dawood.
Promotion of Virtue and the maintenance and what is customary in the country. With the care of the money man's land,
* Maintenance of the wife a great reward, he said the Messenger peace be upon him: (If a man spent, it is his charity) and agreed that if he wanted them for the sake of God and will improve it.
3 - not to beat her for no reason
Hit the wife in case of nushuz and glory on her husband, Do not hit in the face and beat her at all but a glancing blow by tooth brushing your teeth(alsewak) he said: ((34) Men are in charge of women by [right of] what All h has given one over the other and what they spend [for maintenance] from their wealth. So righteous women are devoutly obedient, guarding in [the husband's] absence what All h would have them guard. But those [wives] from whom you fear arrogance - [first] advise them; [then if they persist], www.Islambasics.com forsake them in bed; and [finally], strike them. But if they obey you [once more], seek no means against them. Indeed, All h is ever Exalted and Grand.) (women: from verse 34).
Not be in the face, said peace be upon him: (and hit his face and ugly and abandoned only in the home) Narrated by Abu Dawood.
4 - not only in the abandoned house
Do not abandon your wife is in the house they come out and lose it or leave it in her family's house, and this abandonment between you boys do not feel you there so do not get anything from allergies, and affected children when they see the father hit their mother or abandoned.
He said peace be upon him: (and hit his face and ugly and abandoned only in the home) Narrated by Abu Dawood.
5 - Do not say your face is ugly:
You need to go to take into account the feelings of a husband and wife with utter verbally Hassan does not hurt feelings and ugly terms that come not worthy, he said, peace be upon him: (and hit his face and ugly and abandoned only in the home) Narrated by Abu Dawood.
6 - justice between wives
The husband must treat his wives, and be justice in the Many things, including: food and drink, clothing, housing and accommodation, is not required section is not his love and the like, have warned that peace be upon him no justice he said: (he had two women did not treat them equally. The day of resurrection One Hqih a lapsed or tilted).
7 - Not publish the secrets of the wife
Of the rights of the wife on her husband not to disclose her secret and not to mention a defect therein; as is the Secretary upon and demands care, and the greatest evil publish what is going on between them if Beauty and the like, for saying peace be upon him: "The most evil of people with God, the status of the Day of Resurrection will be a man to his wife and him, then he spreads her secrets. "Narrated by Muslim.
8 - to assist them in her home
One of the things desirable and that are happy wife, and Trihha from the fatigue of the house, was narrated that 'Aa'ishah said: "The Messenger of God; if he entered the house Kahdkm sewing clothes and works Kahdkm) Bukhari, and in the novel: (He was to be his profession, his means the service of his family If prayer came out to pray. "
9 - to assist them in raising children
Many couples leave the burden on the children's mother pays no attention to them, and certainly this is not true, but it should be on the couple's cooperation to raise the construction proper education.
10 - let her go out if needed for that
The husband should allow his wife to go out if needed to visit of her family, relatives and neighbors as well as if I asked his permission to go out to the prayer group and she is going out legally so as not to affect the good and not go adornment seduced by men, it is the year to allow her to, but should advise her that her prayer in her house, her best.
11 - out of jealousy:
Be zealous in her religion and display the qualities of jealousy, particularly gallant men holy, and enable it speaks volumes about the real solidity in a position of true and noble manhood.
This does not mean mistrust of women, Search, behind every crime without suspicion.
It was narrated from Jabir ibn Otaik said: The Messenger of Allah peace be upon him: ((The jealousy of the other hated by God and is jealous of the man on his family is suspicious)) [Narrated by Ahmad, Abu Dawood, and classed as hasan by al-Albaani in Alroa].
12 - satisfy the sexual desires
Women have sexual instincts and desires of the husband must fulfill in order not to Go to of the forbidden, and many couples do not care about anyone but himself, and then when Rgith sexual relieved to leave the wife and this is a mistake, you must wait until The wife also enjoy...
Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah said: men must have sex with his wife Virtue; assure a right to it: the greatest of the feed. And intercourse should be said that it is the duty of every four months time. It was said that as far as their need and ability; fed as much as their need and ability. This is more correct opinions. Uh
13 - thanks to the actions of its work
For the husband is thanking his wife on its service and education to his children, narrated from Abu Hurayrah that the Prophet peace be upon him said: (do not thank Allah does not thank people) Narrated by Abu Dawood and Ibn Hibbaan, Ahmad and classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al [7719]
14 - with harm and patience on the issue of things
The husband has to bear the harm his wife and left out for many of them, which will give a mercy and the compassion God has ordered the de facto Virtue said: {And live with them in kindness. For if you dislike them - perhaps you dislike a thing and All h makes therein much good. } [Women: 19].
Warning
My husband's wary of:
* Ensure outside the home
Many couples can not afford to sit at home and ensure a lasting along time out causing marital problems, many do not care about the feelings of the wife so they gave a single wall of her room, and this is not sending her ... Has said peace be upon him for the companion who is fast on the day and night (if you really have to your family).
Beware to stay up for long hours and leave your wife alone.
* Beware of the long absence in travel:
May travel a husband for his work or other things, per ton has to take into account the travel to be as short as possible, when he spent his command returned to his family said peace be upon him: (travel piece of suffering, prevents any one of his food and drink and sleep, if he spent any of you Nhmth of face, Vlajl back to his family) Narrated by Ahmad and classed as saheeh by al-Albaani.
Perhaps six months would be appropriate for the absence, and it will not Omar may Allah be pleased with him over the house from the houses of Muslims heard a woman inside the house sings:
Says verses Poem from feeling sad to the absence of her husband a long period of time
Asked Omar may Allah be pleased with him reported he was told that her husband is absent for the sake of Allah, so he sent it back to her husband to it, and entered upon his daughter Hafsa asked her: How can a woman bear her husband? Said: Praise God, you ask me about this?! She said five months, six months, stood Omar and said do not miss a man from his family for more than six months.
However, circumstances may have a husband to stay for a long time, to certain conditions, there is nothing wrong if it did not hurt the wife, and be satisfied.
And Reconcile God for a happy life, and God knows best blessings and peace upon our Prophet Muhammad
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