Greetings Redfrangipani:
It�s interesting that you should bring up this topic. I just read a very good young adult novel that deals with this issue. It�s called Sandpiper by Ellen Wittlinger. I can�t say what the mistake was or I�d give away the story. But it was a terrible one that a very young man had to deal with.
Anyway if it were me, I wouldn�t try to go through something like that alone. I�d get professional help and support right away.
What would you suggest?